i have libra venus conjunct my ascendant (it's aspected by a lot of **** part of a kite with my moon/uranus/mercury and a t-square with moon/mars) and i do tend to flirt unintentionally and compulsivelyit's just how i generally interact with people and as a result i very frequently find myself in situations where i almost feel like i'm playing chicken
a lot of my friendships end up becoming complicated with feelings from other people coming up and **** like that
i've had multiple friends tell me they're in love with me and **** like that over the years or turn into friends with benefits situations etc
in my case i'm bi so it's men and women, but yeah i can't say i'm unaware of the frequency
a friend of mine things got complicated with pointed it out, and another things are complicated with has said similar about how many people have feelings and such
it isn't all good though, can come with dealing with a lot of insecurity and **** when i'm in a relationship because there's always that "i'm replaceable" idea from the other person even if i don't feel that way which can become frustrating
that being said i've never cheated or anything, i'm very faithful when involved, just flirty and don't always mean to be
part of it is just reacting to other people sometimes, they'll say something i'll say something back impulsively but it'll be reflective of their feelings rather than mine
it isn't a purposeful thing though i'm just reactive (aries moon on my descendant) completely uncontrollable and sometimes after i've said something i'll think about it and realize i was a ******* idiot and probably shouldve said anything else because it could be taken to heart where i was being more playful and not particularly serious
my mars though is in cap squaring my moon and venus (loosely conjunct my ic and also loosely conjunct neptune)
in placidus my pluto falls in my first house which probably adds to the way people can get with me (my sun sextiles it as well, but also trines neptune and squares saturn) creates some intense situations and draws in some crazy **** from time to time